lazy days

this past Tuesday Jordan and i decided to spend some time by the pool, just the two of us. both of us have been busy this week with work and various responsibilities that we have to be intentional about spending quality time together. we are complete opposites when it comes to personalities, so we have been working on understanding our differences. these have been some great times.

sometimes it’s hard for me to relax and stop thinking about everything that i have to get done. if i am not checking boxes of my to-do list i tend to feel like i have not accomplished anything that day. that is because i am a task-oriented person and for me to feel satisfied i need to see results.

Jordan has been so gracious to me recently in trying to understand how he can get to know me better. The words that mean the most to me are when Jordan is telling me why he fell in love with me. he loves my personality and he thinks i am the greatest, prettiest, funniest girl he has ever met. he lovingly reminds me that i need to live in the moment and not focus so much on the end result.

i have enjoyed some quiet days where i am getting to know my personality and myself better. and while at the same time learning about each others differences and how we can best learn from one other. 

hope you all had a great weekend.